Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Part of My Story

I don't remember exactly when... but it must have either been my sixth grade year or the summer before seventh grade... but my dad offered to pay me to memorize poems.

Yeah, that's right. Memorize poems. Most kids get an allowance...

We didn't get an allowance in our house growing up. But that summer... I got paid to memorize poems.

The thing is... my dad has always been a lover of all things written. My sister says it like this... that you could always tell what the focus was in our house by the vast amount of books and bookshelves we had vs. the one little television.

So that summer I memorized two poems. The first was The Village Blacksmith by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow and the second was The Ride of Paul Revere also by Longfellow. I don't remember how long it took me to memorize the poems and I don't remember how much I got paid. But I do remember this...

My seventh grade year my English class was taught by two teachers who joined their classes together. They were the coolest teachers at Keithley Middle School in Tacoma Washington. Mr Ice and Mr Mondloch.

One day, during class we were separated into two groups... teams. We were being asked questions from Brain Quest cards and getting points for our team for correct answers. All of a sudden Mr. Ice gets to a question that he didn't think anyone in the class would know and he said that whoever could answer it correctly would get 50 bonus points. FIFTY! Then he reads the question and I can still remember this like it was yesterday. He's looking at the card and he says "In a poem by Henry Longfellow, who stands under a chestnut tree?" Of course, with 50 bonus points on the table, almost every hand in the class went up. Everyone wanted at least a guess at who it was. Some wise crack said Donald Duck. My little seventh grade hand went up in the air, but I ACTUALLY knew the answer!! That was one of the poems I had memorized for money! I sat there patiently waiting for them to come around to me. My heart felt like it was about to beat out of my chest.

When it was my turn to answer I said "Under a spreading chestnut tree, the village smithy stands." The room went silent and every jaw in it dropped. I got my 50 bonus points!

The point is, had my dad not encouraged me to memorize classic poems that summer, I not only would have not known the answer, I wouldn't have even known what or who the question was talking about. But my whole life at home I have been encouraged to pick up a book, to memorize a poem, etc. My dad amazes me. He can recite numerous poems by heart. The Ride of Paul Revere being one of them... which... is no short poem. Look it up sometime.

As the years have gone by the only part of the poem I've retained by memory is
"Under a spreading chestnut-tree
The village smithy stands;
The smith, a mighty man is he,
With large and sinewy hands"

This all came flooding back to me tonight. My dad declared tonight family poem reading night. He asked us all what our favorite poems were, and he pulled them up on the internet. Then we took turns oldest to youngest, dad, mom, my two sisters, and me sitting in the designated chair and reading aloud our poem. Tonight mine was The Village Blacksmith.

Here is the poem in its entirety...

Under a spreading chestnut-tree
The village smithy stands;
The smith, a mighty man is he,
With large and sinewy hands;
And the muscles of his brawny arms
Are strong as iron bands.

His hair is crisp, and black, and long,
His face is like the tan;
His brow is wet with honest sweat,
He earns whate'er he can,
And looks the whole world in the face,
For he owes not any man.

Week in, week out, from morn till night,
You can hear his bellows blow;
You can hear him swing his heavy sledge,
With measured beat and slow,
Like a sexton ringing the village bell,
When the evening sun is low.

And children coming home from school
Look in at the open door;
They love to see the flaming forge,
And hear the bellows roar,
And catch the burning sparks that fly
Like chaff from a threshing-floor.

He goes on Sunday to the church,
And sits among his boys;
He hears the parson pray and preach,
He hears his daughter's voice,
Singing in the village choir,
And it makes his heart rejoice.

It sounds to him like her mother's voice,
Singing in Paradise!
He needs must think of her once more,
How in the grave she lies;
And with his haul, rough hand he wipes
A tear out of his eyes.

Toiling,--rejoicing,--sorrowing,
Onward through life he goes;
Each morning sees some task begin,
Each evening sees it close
Something attempted, something done,
Has earned a night's repose.

Thanks, thanks to thee, my worthy friend,
For the lesson thou hast taught!
Thus at the flaming forge of life
Our fortunes must be wrought;
Thus on its sounding anvil shaped
Each burning deed and thought.



Anyway. I wanted to share that part of my story tonight. The Village Blacksmith will always be one of my favorite poems...

...thanks to the summer when I got paid to memorize it.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Reminder

I've been sending out blog reader invites via email. You may need to check your junk mail for it.

If you are still reading my blog but haven't left me your email yet... shame on you.

Jan... I need your email!

Friday, December 19, 2008

Levi The Red Nosed Reindeer



We purposefully arranged Levi so that it would look like he has reindeer antlers coming out of his head.

(Just Kidding)

Merry Christmas anyway

(p.s. - Francie... I need your email so I can add you to the reader invites)

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Private

I've decided to put my blog on invited readers only.

If you read my blog... leave me a comment with your email so I can add you to the list.

please and thank you.

in the meantime... here's a picture to tide you over...

the next Amy Matthews:

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Scenes From a Post Office

I had to go to the post office today.

For some reason Levi brought along a plastic Pirates of the Caribbean sword that Mindi got for him for this birthday. I even let him take it inside with us. Whatever.

So there we are in a line full of people crammed into this tiny post office that's inside a bank. I'm only half paying attention to Levi who's standing at my side.

Then I hear him say "Mom, do I have any boogers in my nose?"

and I look down to see him staring at me with that plastic sword shoved up his right nostril.

The whole place goes silent....

and then breaks out into a simultaneous laugh.

Four year old boys... I tell ya.

He's just keepin' it real, and that's my boy! :)

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

The Pursuit of Happy-ness

I was reading today in the January 2009 Real Simple Magazine. They surveyed 2,600 women and men on their keys to happiness. Here were some of the results:

10 Things That Would Make Women Happier
1. A permanently clean home (Definitely applies to me!!!)
2. A luxury trip (yeah, it'd be nice, but my happiness wouldn't depend on it)
3. A big house (bigGER yeah... but not huge)
4. Losing ten pounds (AT LEAST. and yes... this would make me happier for sure)
5. A great body (check)
6. Time for themselves (check. check. check. check. check.)
7. A really romantic relationship (YES!)
8. Being smarter (check)
9. Saying "no" more
10. A luxury car (not on my personal top ten... but whatever)

I'm kind of surprised that money didn't make the list. Fewer bills at least.

10 Things That Would Make Men Happier:
1. A big house
2. A really romantic relationship (is anyone else surprised that this is #2 on their list??)
3. A luxury trip
4. Being smarter
5. A luxury car (Is anyone else surprised that this is so far down on the list??)
6. A better sex life (this one too. #6? really?)
7. A great body
8. A permanently clean home (hey, you could HELP clean the house fellas. I'm just sayin')
9. Losing ten pounds
10. Having a personal assistant (yeah...)

Thoughts? Opinions??

what would your top ten list look like?

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Monday, December 15, 2008

Levi's (and Audrey's) Corner #2

Please excuse my children. They DO own clothes. However... even in this negative degree weather I can not keep a shirt on Levi. And in an effort to be just like her older brother, Audrey is shirtless too. *eye roll*

On with the show.

My children would like to wish you all some holiday cheer



Saturday, December 13, 2008

Photo Shoot

I got to shoot this little cutie and his older brother today. Such cute boys!! Gonna break some hearts some day for sure.

Telling a Story (picture heavy)

The kids and I finally (emphasis on finally!) put up our little tree this week. It's a cute, small little thing. The thing is... last year we went to Lowe's and picked out a live tree, had the sweet little thang working there help us tie it to the top of our old beater car, brought it home... and then... I found myself with this 7' real tree... complete with real needles that shed... and somehow I had to get it in my house myself (while the kids watched from the sidelines). Same story when it was time to take it down. Only now... it was dead, and shedding all over the house and just as heavy going out as it was coming in. I vowed not to do that again without help. So... this year we just used an old two foot tree that I bought on sale four years ago at Hobby Lobby.

Since our tree is so small this year, we weren't able to hang all of our ornaments, just a select few. It has been a tradition at my family's house for as long as I can remember, that one of our (mine and my three siblings) presents was a new ornament. Usually the ornament had to do with something that we were "into" that year. Every year part of the fun of decorating our tree, was to pull out the ornaments and remember who's was who's and why it was special to that specific person.

When we were grown and out of the house with famlies of our own, mom gave us a box with all of our ornaments from over the years in it. So on our first Christmas away from home we've already got years worth of ornaments that actually mean something... not just plastic or glass fillers from Wal Mart.

It was always one of my favorite Christmas traditions and I have since carried on the tradition with my kids.

So, for today's blog... I'd like to share with you some of our ornaments from over the years.

I played the saxophone from sixth grade through college. A total of ten years. One year my ornament was this santa playing a saxophone. I always wondered why he was black. Hmmm. Oh well, Christmas knows no skin color...



In high school, we were the Waynesville Tigers...



I played soccer in high school...



Carrying on the tradition with my kids...

We moved back to America from England two years ago. The day after Christmas 2006. The four days before Christmas of 2006 we spent driving through Germany and Belgium going to Christmas markets. It was my parents, my two sisters, me, and my two kids, all crammed into a minivan with all of our luggage for a four day drive through France, Germany, and Belgium.... yeah... it was snug. But not something I'll ever forget. It was also Audrey's first Christmas. That year, while at a market in Belgium I got the kids these ornaments...

Levi's:



Audrey's:



just for fun... here is a picture of Audrey on Christmas Eve 2006. She's sitting on the steering wheel of the minivan as we wait in France for a ferry back to England...



This next one was Levi's first ornament. He was born in north carolina (first in flight).



It says north carolina on the bottom... see?...



we've also got a Missouri one...



These are the kid's ornament's from last year. After I took these pictures I wrote their names on them with a black paint pen. I've hung these in front of their stockings this year instead of on the tree...

Levi's:



Audrey's:



this one we got last year at Dixie Stampede in Branson where we spent new year's eve with the kids... (sorry for the fuzzy pic)...



We've got a few more... like the one I made in girl scouts in first grade. (I didn't get a picture of it). We've also got two Mizzou ornaments...





And this? This is our tree topper. The most beautiful tree topper you've ever seen. Audrey made it at Mother's Morning Out this year.



That's our little tree... our story.



and here's one of the presents under the tree. It's something Levi made for me at preschool and I'm not allowed to open it until Christmas.



The anticipation is killing me!!

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Sad but True

I saw this on a church's marquee today:

"Come in and pray today. Beat the Christmas rush."

Sad, but true.

Does it bother anyone else that for some people, the only times they see the inside of a church building are on Christmas and Easter??

I guess I should just be thankful that they see the inside of a church at all... (funerals and weddings excluded)

but still.

I think it's sad.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Just Released

The most exciting thing that's happened to me all day...

The Pioneer Woman released her second set of photoshop actions. Completely free! Just download them straight to whatever version of photoshop you use (doesn't work on elements) and make photos like this:



look like this:



that action is called "sunshine" and makes your subject look like they are being bathed in new morning light. I'm having so much fun with these new actions. Go get them for yourself!!!

(and then share pics!!)

Friday, December 5, 2008

Easy Enough

for anyone who might be interested...

Levi has informed me that for Christmas this year he wants "transformers. aaaaaaand... nope. that's it."

so now you know

boys are easy! (Audrey's list wasn't so short! Ha!)

Thursday, December 4, 2008

The Great Hunt '08

This picture was taken about nine hours before Audrey started puking her guts up, about 42 hours before I started puking MY guts up, and about 72 hours before Levi and John started puking their guts up.

Great mental image huh?

Keepin' it real



my new favorite picture of John:

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

The Mother Letter Project



I ran across this blog with a really neat idea for Christmas this year...

A man has started a blog project called "The Mother Letters." For Christmas this year, this man and his family have decided only to give each other gifts that they have made instead of storebought "gadgets and gizmos." So, this man's idea was to get as many women as he could to write a letter... from one mother to another... and he will be giving the compiled book of letters to his wife as her Christmas gift this year. If that isn't the sweetest, most thoughtful idea a man could have come up with I don't know what is.

Anyway... go HERE to read about the Mother Letter Project, and then... email him a mother letter of your own. And then tell all of your friends to do it. Everyone who sends him a letter before Christmas will receive a copy of the compiled letters.

When I'm done with my letter I might share it here. Or I might not. we'll see.